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May 17, 2015

May 17, 2015

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MY INSTAGRAM: @DOANJULIA / SNAPCHAT: DOAN.JULIA

‘Mommy keeps saying that she’ll slow down with work but then in a happy mood accepts tons of random influencer jobs additionally to her @Floralpunk full-time job, @blush.vn part-time job and obsession with real estate, and barely has time for you. Oh and she wants to learn mandarin again as well and signed up for dance and flower class. And what about you baby girl ? Will you be raised by grandmother ?’ I cannot let this happen but goddamn my ambitions !!! Sometimes I don’t know what to do, I keep thinking that I can deal with everything, load tons of things on my shoulders, then crash and cry because I feel like a failure. So tired of it. Other moms, how do you deal with it ? How do you do work-life balance ? The stupid thing is, when I’m in a good mood, I’m even happy that I have so much work. It’s not until these 4am, tired-as-fuck-and-still-shitloads-to-do moments, that I get tired of the way that Iam ☹️ #messedddddup #juliadoandiary

Lau lau xem lai hinh cu va thac mac quan ao minh tung mac di dau mat roi 🤔😂 #juliadoan

We are the case your parents warned you about !!!! We have been knowing each other only a bit over two months when I found out that I was pregnant. We were drunk in love. As in drunk and in love 😂 we felt like we were a good match and decided to keep the baby. Best decision ever obviously, cos @jjbabychjp is the biggest gift ever. Why ? How can you decide to have a baby with someone after only 2 months ? Because it felt right. I decided that I can have a relationship and future with this human being. I knew that he will be a good partner and loving father. That’s what truly mattered. You know, you can love somebody for two years and not feel ready to have a baby with that person (past relationship) and you can meet someone for only two months and decide that that person is right for you. And that you are ready. Because besides your partner, you need to feel ready. You need to want the baby. I have had an abortion before. It is a physically painful experience but I wasn’t mentally ready. And it happens, and I want to let you know, it’s ok. It’s ok when you are not ready. And it’s important that you are ready. Because there are cases in which mothers give birth and regret it. Let’s be real. We are not living in an utopian world in which every family is perfect. But just to let you know, no matter what you do, make sure you feel good about yourself and that you can live with the consequences. I decided that I’ll live with the consequences in both cases mentioned above. So I had a baby after knowing my boyfriend after only two months. And so far everything is good 🤘🏻 time is not a measurement for love. And every relationship is different. Every person has a different story in life. And this is mine. Nobody should run around judging and blaming other people. Because nobody is perfect. Including yourself. Thanks for reading. #unhiddenthoughts

Sang me day thi di lam luon, toi di lam ve thi con da ngu. Me se co gang lo xong het viec som nhat co the to spend more time with you 😢😢😢 balancing Floralpunk, influencer work, personal and family life is really not that easy 😥

A Nam noi “e dung viet caption nhac den chieu cao”. Ok fine 😂 yeu lam 😚

Mua san pham duoi 300k duoc tui trong mien phi tai @floralpunk 😂

First thing: gonna get my hair dyed today ! Cos I look younger and fresher with lighter hair 💁🏻‍♀️ What’s your favourite place in town ? I go to Amida Hair for bleaching & dying.

Shooting dayyyyy

You need to respect the one you love. Of course as women we sometimes know and do everything better and want to take care of everyone and everything but guys still need to feel like they are in charge. In charge of all the things they are... in charge with. The guys stuff. You know what I mean 😂 I used to be the girl that knows everything better and is in charge of everything. Always telling the guy what to do, not realising that it’s against the law of”Men are from mars, women are from venus” 😂 Read that book, it might save your relationship and change your life. I can now happily let my bf do whatever he needs to do sometimes, like playing games, without getting annoyed 🙈 We barely ever fight because I don’t pick fights anymore. (I used to pick fights all the time in my past relationships 😂) I feel like a more respectful, appreciating and loving human being now than I was 17 months ago (when I started reading that book, going through horrible heartbreak and before I met JJ’s dad). #unhiddenthoughts

#GIRLBOSS ! When I first started my business, Sophia Amoruso, the woman who made girlboss a real statement, was one of my biggest inspirations. Recently I was able to stand in front of the camera along other strong, beautiful and confident girls who each do their own cool thing and inspire others, for this upcoming @cocosin.official collaboration with @phamhuongbee in the name of #girlboss 💥💥💥

We updated our #floralpunkoffice so we can utilize more spaceeee. I really do think a clean space around you helps you to think more clearly. I can’t work properly in a messy environment. If you ever come to my home and it’s in a messy state you know I’m in a messy state.

Couldn’t wish for a more loving father for my daughter : ( happy birthday to my love @southpreme ❤️ if you check my stories you will know how tiring last night was for our family, but JJ & dad are peacefully sleeping right now. And i love both of them so much. JJ for being the cutest thing ever and her dad to be so caring and loving of her.

Đồng Ivy Tuệ Lâm. My most precious little one.

Our first family selfie ? 😂 @southpreme & @jjbabychjp #familyyyyyy